fun day-out with my girls!

Finally, I managed to blog about my spa outing with the girls..

To begin with, the idea pasal spa outing ni was brought about by Ms.Rosy masa dia comment status Tek yang tension with work kat FB. It took us quite sometime to agree on the date because ada yang nak kena attend court, rescedule meeting & court dates, and the list goes on! Bla dah agree on the date, Ms. Rosy pulak unable to join us sebab she has fully utilized her annual leave & mc..nak buat weekend memang susah lah for those yang dah ade anak kan :p xpelah, perhaps the next one Ms. Rosy boleh join :)

Finally, we (Tek, Reeva, Radh, Nad, lil sis and her friend Nani & me) agreed to meet up on Wednesday, 25th November 2009 @ 1230pm. On the day of which im supposed to unwind myself, macam2 lah came up. Tension betul..dh apply for leave to have fun and relax with the girls kena masuk office plak. tak ke tension?? If kejap ok la, ni almost 11.30am baru kluar ofis. So I end up speeding sebab nak pick up my lil' sis kat Shah Alam dulu before heading to Damansara to catch our spa appointment at 12.30 pm. Obviously, we were late! nak dekat 1.30pm baru start our session. and because of that the girls spa appointment pun delayed by almost an hour! so sorry girls (blame my boss for that last minute arrangement).. paling kesian kat Reeva la coz tak bleh stay lama and join our gossiping session :) punya la frust makcik tu, hehe..

The spa outing was one memorable outing for me in which I will remember for the rest of my life! firstly - this is the first spa outing with my friends, secondly - it was also my first time makan kat Marche and most importantly, this is the first time I 'burnt' myself in public sebab asyik sangat ambik gambar the girls..aihh, clumsy me!!! wat malu jer..aihhh!

Nak jadikan crita, I was so bz ambik gambar sampai tak prasan ada candle kat blakang..padahal obvious giler la kan kat spa mestila ada candle as deco, pffttt!!! sedar2 je rasa panas sgt at the back followed by bau terbakar! then ape lagi, panik la! luckily Nad was quick, it could have been worst coz api agak besar.. my baju memang g.o.n.e! plus ada kot segenggam rambut terbakar, huhuhuhuhu... but nasib baik my hair layered, so takde la obvious sgt :p thank God i was wearing singlet underneath my blouse that day..kalau tak memang pening nak pikir nak pakai ape. If I pakai size 'S' takpe lah, senang nak mintak tolong one of the girls turun belikan baju kat Curve..tgh2 panic tu teringat my shawl dalam kereta, so I end up covering myself with shawl that evening..apart from the fact that everyone was stunned tak tau nak wat ape, somehow I rasa kelakar giler that time...

after the "incident", we all went straight to Secret Recipe to pick up Tek's birthday cake, thereafter pegi Marche. It was our first time makan kat Marche (except for Reeva). sambil makan, ape lagi..gossip time lah! then tiba2 Reeva ckp comething like this "ok girls I have to go, and btw Tek..happy birthday" :p after that memang Tek tau lah ada suprise for her, hehehe...takpelah Reeva..cant blame u,kitaorg pun lupa nk bgtau it was supposed to be a suprise :)

lama jugak we all lepak kat Marche..had teh tarik after that. I think most of you would agree with me that teh tarik if minum panas2 baru ummphh! but my friend Tek ada her own way to enjoy her cup of teh tarik..kena check tempreture dulu tu..slagi tak sejuk tak minum :) puas we all kutuk dia that day, hehe..but it's ok yang, though we all kutuk u, we all tetap sayang u :)

sembang punya sembang..almost 7p.m baru we all gerak balik. ikutkan hati memang we memang tak nak balik lagi tu :)  pape pun, despite dah terasa sakit melecur time tu, it was a fun day out!!!!!!! tak puas......cant wait for our next spa session - tentatively would be in January, yeayyy!!!!!!!!

it's all about rezki, is that so difficult to understand?

i am feeling very2 down today..reason? a friend of mine mentioned something that actually makes me kinda sad and inferior, huhuhu...not that she does it intentionally, but..hmmm... lemme get this straight - I have no issue discussing or talking about me having some difficulties in getting pregnant. But I guess no matter how close you are with someone, never ever makes fun of him/her when you know how sensitive that person is when it comes to certain matter. in my case, it's all about b.a.b.y!

it is not my intention to question what are His plans for me and my family, but I just get it.. why it is so easy for some people (who are not ready) to get pregnant..be it married couple yang by 'accident' got pregnant or those who simply abandon their baby(ies) after carrying them for 9 months :(  we on the hand, have been trying for the past 2 years & 5 months! still blom ade rezki, nak buat macamana!

it is not easy I must say. not easy to get pregnant and not easy to deal with people around you. there are times when I would feel very2 lonely despite having him around..being me yang cengeng, nangis la apa lagi (isk!). Although he supports me, gave me the strength I need, and always there whenever I need him, I just think that only those in my shoe would be the only one that would understand how I really feel deep down..

hmm, nasib baik la my 'emo nak baby' ni seasonal, if every month I think he would have left by now, hehe.. there are many instances yang boleh trigger the 'attack',  but the most difficult part in dealing with this issue is bila balik kampung.. (esp. those makcik2) would be asking the same question over & over again! and they keep on asking me, why am I not pregnant yet! hello??????? it's in God's hand lah, how am I supposed to know..

and so, I've been thinking about this option for quite sometime, because I hate feeling lonely (esp when he's outstation for days)! I want to come back from work and play with my baby..though now I get to play with my nephew almost everyday, the feeling not the same. bcoz no matter what - he is still my nephew. I want my own...we had a long talk about this option. We agreed to wait until 3 years before we adopt. I've checked the website, but I think it would take ages before our turn comes..so if any of you out there knows anyone yang willing to give up their baby due to poverty ke ape, please lemme know ok? tak kisah la if its in the near future because if dah rezki awal and keadaan mengizinkan insyaAllah we would adopt the child.. who knows, maybe I'd get pregnant after that :)

but for now, I am trying very2 hard to be strong and face this test by Him. I know He knows that I really really really really want to have my own child(ren)..and I truly hope I would be given the chance one fine day, Amin!!!

Ok enough about me wanting to have babies :) today is my lil sis's 29th birthday...i'm happy to see her happy :) I'd say this year's celebration is a special one for her since she gets to celebrate it with her lil munchkin..Happy 29th birthday Sha, I heart U!

busy

in a nutshell, our spa get-together went smoothly (except the part I 'burnt' myself)..giler lah! unforgettable experience, hahaha...will try to find time to post about the fabtabulous get-together soon.

In the meantime, I need to sort out banyak benda...as of now, although checklist (almost) complete, the major part blom start lagi...i hate packing!!!!!!!

my travel checklist:

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  passport renewal
  
  
  
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  flight ticket
  
  
  
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  accomodation & airport transfer
  
  
  
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  to cash cheque advance & tukar duit
  
  
  
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  collect my business card
  
  
  
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  collect agenda, etc from office
  
  
  
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  list of office attire
  
  
  
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  list of baju jalan
  
  
  
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  list of miscellaneous (handbag/kasut/etc)
  
  
  
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  charge laptop
  
  
  
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  charge camera, hp
  

owh, by the way..darl H decided to tag along (yeay!!!!!!!) 3days pun jadilah, at least 4 days je I sangap nanti :D

and of course, Salam Aidiladha to u all ..cheers!

just realized ...

....that I need to renew my passport for me to be able to attend the conference *sigh* sempat ke nak settle everything by noon esok?

1) eventho' on leave, pagi nak kena gi office settle perihal conference

2) then nak kena pi renew passport

3) then drive back to shah alam fetch Sha by 11 a.m; and

4) be at Spa by noon sebab dah confirm appointment...

ayooooooo!!!!!!! can I not go to the conference pleaseee????? conference punya hal ni makes me stress on the day that I'm supposed to be enjoying myself sebab nak ber'spa'ing with my bff, arghhhh!!!!!

current mode : mixed feelings

loads of work to settle yesterday, so I decided to stay back (so not me!)...masa dah siap2 nak balik, all of the sudden my boss panggil, and i was like 'dont tell me ada urgent agreement yang nak by today jugak'! masa pegi jumpa dia, i saw him reading something..dah start dah panic time tu (coz kot2 kena pegi trining or attend meting esok lusa ke ape - ye lah! kan nak cuti sbb nak ber'spa'ing)... and there it was - first thing I saw "AGENDA"..and knowing him yang mmg slalu suka bgtau last minute ~ I was like sudahhhhh........jgn ckp kena pegi training esok/lusa eh. Ape dia ckp time tu mmg dh tak dgr, coz I was beeeezeeeeeee zoom-in the date :D and it shows 30/11/2009! Legaaaa......

He then told me he wants me to attend conference next week, but on Sunday dah kena pegi. I was excited coz I'll have the opportunity to get out of the office, hehe..(but) have mixed feelings about it.

(1) sebab most probably I'll be going alone sbb it's a conference on legal matters for ASW Project (sape lagi nak pegi kan since my boss tak pegi) (2) I'll be away from H for the 1st time more than 2 days - to be exact it's going to be 6 days, huhuhu... (dah la ni luar M'sia punya conference - plus it's going to be held dekat tmpt yang ada isu sket bab 'malaysian'), (3) I'm very2 sure I'm going to miss lil' Farish (and H of course), (4) I'm scared I might not be able to deliver up to my boss's expectation.. (5) tak syok la pi sana and takde geng nak jalan2 (mcm la takleh make frenz kat sana kan)..and the list goes on lah...

Neway, tau tak ape first thing yg terpkir masa I got to know nak kena go out of the country??? Takut kena tahan ngan imigresen kat airport sbb PTPTN :p ape lagi, straight away lps tu called H and ask him to make that one important phone call to check whether my name blacklisted, hehehe... Alhamdulillah, clear! But still, ade ke possibility tba2 dorang tahan kat airport?? hmm..risau gaks!

So now, gotta get back to work..nak kena habiskan benda2 yang pending since I won't be in the whole of next week, plus..nak kena settle this & that for my trip! Stay back lagi la nampaknye............

apa2 pun, it's still ON!!!!!!!!!

since hujan lebat on saturday, my plan nak pegi purchase our spa promo voucher tersentot! so yesterday, dengan kembang hati sbb happy pegi la to the place. tu la, org tua2 ckp jgn happy sgt kan, I end up kembang hati sebab bengkek ngan the management of the place...

citernye, before booking I ALREADY INFORM the girl in charge that I'm trying to get pregnant and cannot do foot reflex (FYI, its included in the package).  Sebabnye, last time I dunno I was pregant, so dengan sesuka hatinye pegi la foot reflex. hambikkk, lps tu miscarriage :(  well, not that it's the main reason I miscarriage...kebetulan la kot. dah blom ade rezki time tu kan, nak wat cane....So since then, my gynae suh elak foot reflex sebab my priod memang jenis sesuka hati dtg, so susah nak detect. Like now, since blom period..(expected priod early Dec), I dont want to take the risk la kan..mane la tau kot2 ade (Amin!!!)

So punya setelah penat mengexplain, that girl ckp ok I can change to other treatment provided within the pricelah (which is logic la kan). Alih2, masa nak pegi bayar..dia ckp tak boleh pulak! mane la makcik tak angin kan? I even told them manicure was way cheaper, takkan xbleh kot. Still, dia ckp cannot. Dia ckp if nak tukar only can change to french facial tretment (of which bukan setakat no foot reflex, body massage pun xleh dapat (wtf??) ) helo??? main point pegi spa nak dpt body massage ok??

Hmm, time tu mmg giler bengkek & rasa bersalah jgk sebab dont want to dissappoint my luvlies yang mmg dh look fwd to mencantikkan diri kat situ. then H ckp no point paying if I dont get what I want. he even said my luvlies would understand my situation.. (dah mula pening pkir mane plak nk mencantikkan diri)..

so this morning, told my luvlies the situation. so we have decided not to proceed (Nad cakap no point pegi tempat yang sombong and cannot accomodate customer's needs, hehe..) . Boy, that does make me feel good :) tq for understanding gurls!!!! and the best part..dah dapat new place to mencantikkan diri :D better deal plak tu.. (minus the free flow of Haagen-Daz ice cream je la), hehe..

So now, tengah sort out the time and everything sbb the new place opens at 12noon. so we need to decide what time to meet up..as for lunch, (I think) we all sebulat suara nak mkn buffet :D elok sgt la kan, lps mencantikkan diri pegi menggemokkan diri pulak (of which good for reeva sorang jek yang underweight) :p 


ape2 pun, i'm glad we managed to sort things out :) lusa babe, lusa!!!

counting the days...

...to SPA outing with my luvlies! 4 more days to go, wooooohooooo!!!!!! gonna go check out the place later in the evening :) it's in Glenmarie, dekat jer! last nite hubby n me dropped by the place sebab nak make payment, tapi tutup la pulak. Arini have to go by myself sebab hubby kluar lepak with his friends ~ boys day out la konon today! anyway, according to one of the staff dorang tutup sebab ade company event kat situ. best kan keja company yang kasi spa retreat to their staff?

today's hot topic @ the office!

I'm sure ramai yang dapat this one particular email about "winter storm" expected to hit KL today. I first got that email from my LLB(Hons.) friend, Shireen. Soon after, I lost count dah how many emails masuk pasal this "winter storm".. even my dad pun ade mention pasal this rumours - (I think) he got to know it from his friends over karaoke outing last weekend...macam2 version dengar, but one of it is that the strong wind tu datang from Siberia ?? hmmm....

Well, according to the email ... the "winter storm" is expected to hit KL around 7 p.m (wallahualam!). The sender siap kasi precautions for email recepients to have some warm clothings on hand, suruh be home early, etc. (yang bab suruh be home early tu I like, hehe..) he/she even suggested an article on 'How to Survive Being Stranded in Snow!' ...

Hot tak hot citer "winter storm" ni, it seems dalam newspaper ade kluar article pasal this email and that it's just a hoax by irresponsible people. Being me yang memang malas baca newspaper, I am unable to confirm article tu from which newspaper (oops!)

But one thing for sure, I kinda keep track of today's weather, hahaha! just in case la kan? It was a bright & beautiful morning :) afternoon, quite sunny (at least at my office area ni lah)...but somehow, now macam dah gelap and windy - macam nak hujan lebat (ayayaiyayai....) nak kata percaya email tu, tak.. but with unusual weather-related events that many parts of the world have experience , I somehow have butterflies in my stomach *sigh*

So let's pray that it's just a hoax :D

Officially a blogger!

After contemplating whether or not to have my own blog...I've FINALLY made up my mind. So here I am, officially a blogger! I guess better late than never la kot...at least I can read it when I grow old nanti, kihkihkih!